What I did during the break; Or what happens when I have to much free time

Monday

This was a fun day, I had two goals and failed at both, but I succeeded in other ways. The first thing I did that day was grocery shopping with my father. I mostly joined in other to buy makeup remover and dry shampoo. The store had neither*. I got sad and bought apples instead, with the intent to bake an apple pie at a later.

 My other project of the day was to organize the three disorganized drawers/shelves in my closet. The drawers went fine, but then came the shelve from hell. Instead of taking it on I cleaned out and organized the hallway clothes hanger and the first wardrobe. No one had done that in ages, and I managed to fill a bag worth of clothes to get rid of. My favorite part was the mittens that fit a infant and the scarf my father had no idée he owned. Also the fact that I now have my very own drawer and don’t have to share with my brother. 

You would not believe how this place looked before I got my hands on it

Tuesday

Me, my father and my brother went to a museum. Our original plan was to go to the museum of the sea, Sjöfartsmuseet, but it turned out that they were renovating and it was closed. Then we thought,” let’s go to the city museum, Stadsmuseet. But it’s hell to park there so we ended up close to Maritiman and went there instead. In the end it was probably a good choice, I don’t think that my brother would have enjoyed Stadsmuseet. Also Maritiman is the best museum in the city, you get to climb around in an old warship and a submarine, they have other boats to but they aren’t as big or as much fun. 

Boats♥

In the afternoon I was planning to continue with the wardrobe clean-out but mom wouldn’t let me. I think that she was afraid to get more than one bag of clear out clothes to take care of. Instead I finally tackled my shelf from hell. The shelf turned out pretty well, but I now have a dress in my pants drawer because it doesn’t fit anywhere else, so I’m going to have to fix that.  

In the evening we went to the local galleria wear I finally could by dry shampoo and makeup remover. Also bought hair-ties and hair rollers. Then went home and tried to roll my hair, it did not go well so no pictures.                     

Wednesday 

I started watching Interior Design Masters on netflix while doing some studying. Then I realised that I was spending all of the daylight indoors and that was bad. So my plan was to take some outfit pictures with the family camera, only it was out of battery. So I texte dad to ask him wear the chargers was and he said that we apparently had some spare batteries upstairs. Afters some searching I finally found them and put them in, only for it to turn out that they too was out of energy. My dad no longer has responsibility over the batteries. In the end the pictures was taken and I got all the camera equipment in my room.

In the afternoon I watched the rest of Interior Design Masters, sadly my favorit did not win. I also finished the english homework that wasn’t actually necessary to finish and I still hadn’t started on school work that would have been good to do.

Thursday 

 Wrote some, and felt sorry for my shelf. Also played video games.

Friday 

Woke up late again. Then had an honest conversation with my mum about how vacation makes me a mess, apparently she had the same problem growing up. Felt quite nice to know that I wasn’t the only one. Also it solidify my plan to study during the summer, college courses hear I come. The we finally baked the apple pie, and it was delicious. Also wrote some.

Look at this beauty 

Saturday 

Made myself wake up early, no one else did. When the clock tournd 10.30 I started getting worried, but I had a cat in my lap and I want that worried. The family finally got up shortly after. Also, finished cleaning my room. Changed the sheets and it is now finally vacuumed. Normally it happens more often, but I thought that my father was going to do it way before I got sick and he just changed his mind and didn’t tell me. Who does that?? How was I supposed to now that? I didn’t realized it until it was too late and I was already sick.   

Sunday 

Drove our mini tractor in our paddock in  order to evening out, it took a long time but I got to listen to music at the same time so I was fine. Finally started studying, even though it wasn’t until the afternoon. Still, got a lot of studying done that day. Then, in the evening, I went to my grandmother and spent the night there. That meant that I could go up 45 minutes later and still be on time on Monday  

*In order to be fair to Citygross I feel like I ought to mention that they do in fact have makeup removing wipes but I was looking for the liquid kind.      

How to look put together when sick and forced to interact with other humans. 

The most important part is to wear clothes that you find comfortable, so start with choosing a pair of nice pants. Now, I’m a bit weird, and actually likes wearing jeans even when sick and that makes looking put together much easier but it isn’t a must. 

For the top; it’s most important to stay warm and cosey. I would wear a oversized sweatshirt. To make it look more stylde, tuck a part of the shirt in the pants. Believe me it makes a lot of a difference. Also if you’re wearing a belt then it’s nice to show it of.

The best and easiest way to look styled is to match the color of your shoe to your top/jacket. I like wearing a boot with room for a big warm knitted sock, since I can’t stand the feeling of walking in knitted socks I wear a pair of regular socks underneath. 

I have the great fortune of owning a pair of matching boots and jacket, those are my go to when feeling down. The most important thing is to choose a warm and comfortable jacket.  

Another tip is to make sure to take a shower before going out, especially to wash your hair. You won’t believe how much better you will feel after showering.            

Another great part of being sick is that I showed up so sporadically that I could were the same outfit for three weeks without feeling like I was repeating outfits. 

The don’ts of dressing while sick.

Don’t try to experiment, you are sick, take it easy.

Don’t wear materials that takes energy to be compatible with. I can wear corduroy, but it takes energy that I don’t have when sick. Always choose fabrics that you can stand to 100%. 

Don’t go out if you are way to sick, like I did. Also don’t care about these advices if you don’t want to. The most important part of getting dressed when sick is to dress in a way that makes you feel better. I feel better when looking put together, so this works great for me.   

The one outfit I wore for three school-weeks, which basically was four days, not in a row.

Why being sick sucks a lot more when you’re autistic

I just had a biology test and it didn’t go as well as I wanted, and I want to blame it all having been sick on and off for three weeks. 

Being sick isn’t good for any one, but it is extra bad if you are autistic. Being sick doesn’t just mean that I miss school, it destroys all of my routines. So beside feeling off because of having a fever I also feel off because I can’t do the things I like when I like to do them. 

For example I like sewing on Friday and Saturday nights, but when ill I can’t do that. Instead I get left with an uncomfortable feeling of incompleteness. Now take that feeling and multiply it with all the things I normally do during a day and add that to the already afulness that is having cold and you end up with what it feels like for me to be sick. 

We could also and on the stress of knowing that there is more and more schoolwork that you have to catch up on for every day that you are sick, and also knowing that you just don’t have the energy to start with it yet.

Thankfully I am now feeling a lot better, although the coughing from the bronchitis hasn’t given up. Yes, beside having a common cold I also got bronchitis, my life has been really fun the last three weeks. It was actually kind of fun the last two days when I was gone because it turns out I get really affected by coughing medicine. I have no idea what happened between 10 and 14 last Wednesday. 

The fact that I have a break next week meant that I felt comfortable writing this instead of studying, I only wish that the biology was after the break and not before it. 

Any way, there should be no reasons for me to not be posting regularly again, so my few followers, you have something to look forward to. I love being back in routine!

Guide To Second-Hand Stores in Central Gothenburg

I love thrifting, it’s the best way to buy clothes, both for the environment and for the wallet. But it can be a bit difficult to start; which stores are the best ones?, and where do you find them? This list will hopefully answer those questions and make it easier to start. I have compiled a list and reviewed the second hand stores in central Gothenburg. After reading this you will have no excuse not to start thrifting.        

Myrorna

Järntorgsgatan 10 

This is a great store for both newbies and more experienced thrifters and it’s big enough to fit all. It’s four floors, the first mostly have things, such as plates, glasses etc. The rest of them have clothes, and much of it. It’s all very well organized, more so than many retail stores. If you want jeans you go to the jeans corner, if you want blouses you go to the blouses corner. There is even a space for more, like designer brands. They are that well organized! On the top floor they have vintage clothes and it’s sorted by decade.  Although their shoes are spread out through the whole store, so if shoes is what you’re looking for, then you may have to do some hunting!

The store is big enough for a wheelchair or a stroller and they have an elevator to take you between floors.  

Myrorna Olskroken

Redbergsvägen 11A

This is the same brand as the store in the section above and they have the same manner of sorting and assortment, only in a smaller scale. This one is a floor and a half, there is a ramp and stairs in order to get to the top part where most of the clothes are, it’s also where the books are. There is probably a ramp or some way to get help to get inside the shop, there are two steps, but I’m too socially awkward to ask. Like the previous store the clothes is well sorted and easy to find.     

Alos I forgot to mention it above, if you are a student and registered to Mecenat or Studentkortet then you can get a discount. I think it’s 10% of the entire purchase, but you should probably double check.    

Djurens samarittjänst

Frigångsgatan 2 

This store is very small and there are a few steps to enter, it’s not very well suited for a wheelchair. The store is so small that the fitting room is just a curtain in a corner. It’s run entirely by volunteers and all the money they earn goes to rescued cats.

Despite the small size they have some great clothes, you can tell that the people that donates believes in the cause. All the clothes are clean and in good condition. Also they have great prices, I found a pair of Levis for 40 kr, that’s like 4 dollars, pounds, euros.

Ebbes Hörna 

Amerikagatan 4

There are multiple Ebbes Hörna in Gothenburg, none are any exciting. That said, they aren’t bad, they just aren’t anything special. In order to enter this one you have to pass one step, if you want to reach the ceramics or the books you have to get down more stairs and there is no elevator. 

They do have a lot of clothes and some shoes, so one could definitely find something of interest. This just isn’t my favorite. If it means anything, my mother thinks it is a nice and clean store.

Röda Korset, or Red Cross

Första Långgatan 28C

I had never actually been to this one before deciding to write this article, but it was really nice. I told myself not to shop when gathering research, this store made me break that rule. There is just one floor and I’m pretty sure that they had a ramp to the entry. It’s very spacious and they have a lot of clothes. It is well sorted, it’s easy to find both dresses and big sizes. According to my mother, the store doesn’t smell funky either. This is definitely a store I will return to. 

Saronkyrkans Second Hand 

Brunnsgatan 5

Look at the pants!

They have really odd opening hours, I mean it, it’s strange. But that is also like the only bad thing about the store. It isn’t on the ground floor, but there is an elevator that customers can use. Inside they have a mix of clothes, furniture, books and miscellaneous. The clothes are well organized, so well that they print the size on the price tag. There is also a café and a toilet in the store, so there is no reason to leave early.

Emmaus Björkå, or Björkåfrihet.

Linnégatan 9

The badger isn’t for sale

I loved this store, they have a lot of clothes that isn’t the best organized. But their shoe range more than make up for it, especially if you love shoes as much as I do. The floor planning is a bit weird. The first time I visited the store, I missed a big part of the it, it is therefore not that well photographed. Also the store is a few steps down, but you can get help to get in. I don’t know how good it would work with a wheelchair inside, it’s pretty narrow. They also have a store in a different part of the city that is much bigger, be sure to check it out.

Why I only buy clothes second-hand.

There are multiple reasons to never shop from a fast fashion company, the most commons reason is of course the environmental aspect. But that is not my reason not to shop there. Even if H&M went completely climate positive overnight, I still wouldn’t shop there.

It all started in 2016. I was in ninth grade and sadly forced to study economics. On the very first page of our textbook there was a story about a Swedish girl going shopping for a dress for her graduation, with her friends. It also told the story of the people behind making the dress. From the person who picked the material to the seamstresses, to the owners of the label. This was around the same time as H&M’s latest “our seamstresses isn’t paid a living wage”, scandal and yes, their latest. We spent the rest of the lesson discussing whose responsibility it is, the company’s or the buyers. I argued, that now when we all know, it’s on us to put pressure on the company, that we should stop buying their clothes until everyone in the process will get the pay that they deserve.

I’m a person who can’t go back on my word, so dad; I will never drink coffee and mum; you will not get any grandchildren from me, but also I will never ever shop from H&M again. So, my boycott started with them. Then it quickly spread, as we all know that the clothes from similar shops have the exact same problematic as H&M. It started to feel a bit hypocritical to shop from places like Forever 21 and Zara when I was on this self proclaimed protest against injustice. 

I do of course make exceptions, I don’t feel like wearing someone’s old underwear or training clothes and sustainable clothing is hella expensive. I, a poor student, can’t afford that. Besides that, the last time I bought a brand new piece was in February, a t-shirt in France, the time before that was last fall when I was in desperate need of new sweatshirts and hoodies due to going to the coldest school in Gothenburg.

I will probably write a piece on exactly how poorly seamstresses in treated, and the environmental impact of fast fashion. And I do understand that not everyone can just go thrift shopping. I just urge you all to think before you buy something, and next week I will hopefully make it a bit easier to go thrifting with my guide to thrift stores in central Gothenburg.

Back to school, but in a good way

The beautiful Hvitfeldtska gymnasium

I’ve been back to school for three weeks and I can’t believe how much better I’m feeling. My biggest envy of neurotypical people is always going to be their ability to fully enjoy summer break. It’s not that I don’t like vacation it’s just that I get so incredibly bored after like two weeks so I can’t do anything. 

Normal me thinks reading is relaxing, vacation me thinks that it’s too boring and can’t focus on the words. For the first week of the break, while my brain was still on normal, I read five books, for the rest nine weeks I only read fanfiction on my phone. And while I think that fanfiction is one of the best things invented I just really didn’t want to only read that during the break. Now that school is back I have already finished two books. I love being back to normal me.

Beside finally getting the ability to read back I have also gotten stability in my life, something that I have sorely missed. I love school and the structure that it provides. I also really love being able to not be around my family at all for an extended period of time. Don’t get me wrong, my family is great, to much time around them just get on my nerves. 

For the next summer break I plan to study at university just to not get that feeling of non functioning human being. At one point this summer it got so bad that I was basically lying on the floor crying which I haven’t done in a year and back then it was for completely different reasons.            

Anyway schools great, stay in school kids. Hope you had a better (dare I say good) summer break.

What I did in Stockholm

My mom and I went to Stockholm for a three days vacation. We took the train from Gothenburg central, it is a four hour journey and it was one of the worst train journeys in my life.

First we missed our original train due to a car accident so we had to get tickets to the next train, which ended up being a half hour late. The café on the train couldn’t accept card payment, luckily we had cash with us. Halfway thru the journey, the police showed up and arrested some man who was causing disturbances. He wasn’t in our cart, mum and I hadn’t noticed anything so it was quite a shock when four police officers hurried down the aisle. By then we thought that no more bad things could happen, but then the train driver said that they couldn’t drive all the way to the city. Mum and I was just laughing, it was disastrous. We had to switch to commute train in one of the burroughs to Stockholm. 

The worst train journey in my life also took place in Stockholm, that time we were stuck there for 12 hours on our way home from Östersund. The food ran out and the toilets overflowed and it was boring as hell to just sit still. These horror stories should not stop you from taking the train, it’s generally an easy and environmentally friendly way to travel.  

When we finally had arrived, things tournd better. We started with walking around the city, shopping. By chance we ended up close to an Emmaus second hand shop and I could not pass up one shot to look around there. I got quite lucky and ended up buying a black dress, a red skirt and a grey shirt. When I was paying, the cashier recommended we should go to their shop next door where they sold vintage and more high end stuff. I found a pair of good looking black Levis 501 that wasn’t too expensive and a dress from Kenzo’s collaboration with H&M. That dress was a bit more expensive, around 400 kr, which honestly isn’t too bad, but it did make me hesitate. In the end my love for the dress won over my thriftiness. After that, mum and I walked along Hornsgatan, a lovely place where we located some other thrift stores to check out at a later date. 

On the second day we went to Hallwylska Palatset (The Hallwylska Palace). It’s a five floor house built for a rich married couple, the von Hallwyl, at the end of the 19 century. The architect didn’t have to care about a budget, and it definitely shows as the place is full of, for that time, extravagant stuff. We went on a guided tour and the guide was amazing, I would definitely recommend it. After the tour we walk around in the city.

One of the daughters; someday I want to wear a dress like that

On our last day we started with visiting Nationalmuseet, they had a temporary exhibition about a furniture designer named Finn Juhl which my mum wanted to see. It wasn’t really anything I was interested in, so I had a quick look around it and then I continued around in the rest of the museum. We only covered one floor, because that place is giant, and we were hungry, but they have a really impressive amount of art. Sadly we spent most time by the art my mom likes, which is more modern, opposed to the older art that I prefer.

After eating fish and chips at an outdoors diner for the second time in two days we went back to Hornsgatan. We went in to every secondhand along the road, but we only shopped in the first one. 

After the last shopping it was back to Gothenburg, lucky that train ride went better than the first. And that concludes my trip to the capital.